We’re asking for YOUR signatures on our open letter shown below and at sex.tech/1billionwhere that version of the letter also shows links to the underlying research and maternal rage underscoring this ask. This is a live long haul slow burn project.
We review suggested edits to the letter at sextech@mamamuse.nyc weekly and evolve it on an ongoing basis with humanity's input.
WE’RE ASKING FOR MEN WHO MADE BIG MONEY FROM ANYTHING TO PERSONALLY HARDCORE FUND FOUNDERS, STARTING WITH FEMALES, WHO HAVE BEEN HARDCORE BUILDING SOLUTIONS TO A CRISIS OF EXPLOITATION, VIOLENCE, AND IDENTITY THEFT IN HARDCORE p*rn, THAT US AND OUR KIDS ARE EXPERIENCING. IT IS TIME TO TURN THE TIDE TOWARD MAKING BILLIONS OFF OF SOMETHING BETTER THAN THE COMMODIFICATION AND OBJECTIFICATION OF FEMININITY: HARDCORE LOVE.
Calling in all men who personally made big money from anything,
It is time to disrupt the p*rn industry together — the world's defacto sex education platform that is exploiting our kid’s minds. We’re reverse-engineering the unintended, albeit extremely harmful, cultural and algorithmic bias in all online systems that is polarizing, harming us, and our kids. We’re doing so in good faith collaboration with people all over the world.
OUR ASK IS SIMPLE: HARDCORE FUNDING FROM RICH MEN STARTING WITH FEMALE FOUNDERS CORRECTING HARDCORE ISSUES IN THESE ECOSYSTEMS AND PARTNERSHIP IN BREAKING DOWN BARRIERS WITH US.
Your investments will go to initiatives such as Cindy Gallop’s pro-sex, pro-p*rn, pro-knowing the difference raise for makelovenotp*rn.com and countless other founders including mothers — doing the work that you cannot without us. We’re not advocating to end p*rn — we know it’s going nowhere and we know many of you love it. However, when exploitative deepfakes of us are created, turned into violent p*rn, and then served up to our kids on platforms you built, a line with humanity has been hardcore crossed. Meanwhile, the same platforms are simultaneously censoring and shadow banning content related to our sexual wellness, pleasure, and the reproductive labor we do creating humans for this world, unpaid in the midst of having our bodily autonomy taken away. How would you feel if your sperm had more human rights than you?
So, we’re all here — mothers included — building the future of positive mind blowing sex, pleasure, and reproductive education to offset the negative societal influences of the hard-coded, hardcore human and engineering biases in the systems that you have built with your skills and monetary systems, and that the whole world now uses, including our kids. We’re inviting you to work alongside the only people that can turn this tide with you. You know it.
1 in 3 kids report to have seen explicit hardcore p*rn by the age of 12 with no context on what it is.¹Research estimates that nearly 1 in 3 p*rn videos contains violent physical aggression against feminine people.² We know it does.The connection between gender-based violence and the p*rn consumption and video game habits of men and boys is proven.³ This is not fair to our men and boys.Online deep-fake p*rn that objectifies women, girls, and boys is running prolific⁴ while our health and sexual wellness advertising is simultaneously censored revealing a deep systems engineering error that ties back to missing feminine philosophical perspectives — we have them.
This is not human-centered design. These dynamics combined with our society’s total lack of competence in education and transparency on matters of sexual health, exploitation, pleasure, true feminine biology, physiology, and reproduction, has led us somewhere that only the feminine perspective can lead us out of. It is imperative that you take women seriously because as the people who have been commodified, exploited, and dominated in these ecosystems, as an extension of millennia of gender-bias coded into history, only we have the missing perspective to correct for this to the benefit of all, you included. See our diversification statement here. We know you get it.
As a third culture mother to all, this is the unpaid work that I do while I travel the world, long into the night after I put my daughter to sleep, on planes, on trains, in bars, on my weekends and instead of having a second child. I do it for all of us in good faith because there is no such thing as *other* people's children. I have spent the past year talking to parents around the world who are deeply worried. I am turning my sweat, blood, own money, and skills, toward offsetting the negative and life-threatening impacts that us and our kids are experiencing. This is happening as generative A.I. converges with the ecosystems that you built. Your legacy is at stake. We need to evolve beyond the deep polarization that your platforms have fueled. Daniela is working her ass off at Harvard cleaning up the sh💫t that products like Facemash left in their wake over a decade onward, and so far I am the only one paying her for it. That must change.
Since the law was created predominantly through masculine perspectives, frames of intellect — it cannot protect us, all of our children, or you. We’re leaning on the same ingenuity, grit, and risk-taking that you have modeled to facilitate the build out an ecosystem of ventures that addresses these issues, together, in collaboration with the Godmother of Sex Tech, Cindy, and many more females and wonderful males. And by god, mother nature, and the laws of physics and engineering, this will be done through us all working in partnership. In the same vein as you have done, we ask that you go out on a limb, just as you have for each other, and as our tax dollars, sex and reproductive labor, has done for you, and hardcore f💫cking fund us.
You have an opportunity to leave a seismic legacy by turning the tide for humanity. Our qualifications to drive this endeavor include years in the tech ecosystem globally, roadmaps for all of this developed over a lifetime, study of nearly every discipline and rabbit hole, and first-hand experience with such behaviors including rape, strangulation, almost being killed, and being harassed in these ecosystems. These experiences have honed our insight, persistence, risk management skills, and hardcore f💫cking tenacity as it relates to successfully navigating the development of an ethical Sex Tech ecosystem.
We are over qualified.
Our Total Addressable Market is approximately 4 billion females, all children and most males, who want to see an end to not only the predation in online ecosystems, however, also an end to the systemic human bias manifested in the rape culture pyramid that underscores it all: the world’s longest running pyramid scheme which exploits all of us, starting with the minds of our men and boys. None of us started this, we all inherited it; however, by physics, engineering, and human curation — we can sure as hell end it, together in partnership. We know you didn’t mean harm, just as we don’t. Yet hardcore harm is being done, and hardcore action must be taken. The estimated market size is in the trillions.
Like you, we don’t give a damn about politics. We want the same things as you: human rights for all, free feminine speech and reach, better education, to have mind blowing sex, honestly, and on our own terms with people we love, and to make a sh💫t ton of wealth. And most importantly: peace for all of our kids and humanity. Make hardcore love with us, not hardcore p*rn, please. We’ll get you f💫cking great again.
With love,
HUMANITYSign here
LUCY NICHOLLSOwner and Co-founder of mamamuse.nyc x sex.tech, Tech GTM Leader, Human Centered Design Technologist, Mother to All, Hardcore Human F💫cking Rights Capitalist
DANIELA ANDRADECo-founder of mamamuse.nyc x sex.tech, Harvard University Neuroscience and Philosophy Student, Research Assistant to Professor Diane Rosenfeld, Founding Director of the Gender Violence Program at Harvard Law School
Goal: >1B signatures + > $US1B raised over time adjusted for inflation and alternative currencies.
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¹https://culturereframed.org/the-crisis/
²https://sosresponds.org/blog/p*rnography-and-its-impact-on-sexual-exploitation/#:~:text=Research%20estimates%20that%20nearly%20one,48.7%25%20contained%20verbal%20aggression%202
³https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6751001/#:~:text=Boys%20exposed%20to%20violent%20p*rnography,to%20their%20non%2Dexposed%20counterparts
⁴https://www.nytimes.com/2024/03/23/opinion/deepfake-sex-videos.html
Namaste
